Last spring one of the other dads in my son’s class
approached me about possibly starting a Tiger den for our sons and their
classmates when they started first grade. I was very enthusiastic about the
idea, I had always imagined that my son would follow my footsteps in scouting
and hopefully surpassing my success, but most importantly making friendships that
are everlasting. I was very clear that I would only be a den leader and was not
at all interested in running a pack. Truth be told there are at least three
places I could walk into today and say I want to be Cubmaster and before the
words got out of my mouth someone would be sewing a patch on my sleeve.
We created a flier to gauge interest and found that we had
at least six who were interested. That would make a great den. After several
weeks of looking for a place, at the right time (when half of the den’s sisters
would be in choir practice), we had a spot and let people know when our first meeting
would be.
I had snacks. I had applications. But I had no idea what I
was going to do with the kids. Through the use of a die we chose a Denner for
the week, it happened to be my son. I had him line the boys up and we did the
pledge of allegiance and I introduced them to the Oath, Law, Motto, cub scout
sign, salute and hand shake. Little did they know when they were laughing at
the word “duty” they were beginning to learn a set of values that could last
with them for a lifetime.
As I stood behind my son, with his hand extended in the air
saying the words I had repeated for decades. I was filled with emotion. Scouting
can be something we share until he is way too old to want to hang around with
his dad. So I can’t screw this up. Once I got past my notes, we played games
and I talked about some of the fun things we will be doing this year. The boys
were on board. The parents in attendance were onboard.
The kid’s ate a “healthy” snack of pretzels and sugary
cookies, while I chatted with the parents. There is still so much to do and set
up. But we are all learning together and I will follow the Cub Scout motto and
I will Do My Best.

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